法寶名稱：Qunshu Zhiyao 360
編 號：DE-0101
描 述：A superior person does not make jokes and his words are in line with propriety. He does not play pranks and his behavior is prudent. If his speech and his behavior are prudent, his wife will not act contemptuously toward him despite their intimate relation, and his friends will not slight him despite their close affiliation. Thus, a superior person's behavior is sufficient to influence the behavior of his family members without any need for harsh reprimands, and moral social customs will be spread across the land without any need for remonstrations. Thus, in Mencius it was said:"When a sage is upright, all the things around him will follow suit." Scroll 46: Zhong Lun（譯：君子口無戲謔之言，言必有防；身無戲謔之行，行必有撿。言必有防，行必有撿，雖妻妾不可得而黷也，雖朋友不可得而狎也。是以不慍怒，而教行于閨門；不諫諭，而風聲化乎鄉黨。傳稱「大人正己而物正」者，蓋此之謂也。（卷四十六 中論） ）
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